Description
You’ll choose this session because you’re ready to have your obedience tested.
You will come along with me in a shared daydream focused on the swirling feelings of jealousy that surround cuckoldry.
And if sharing our bed with another man is an entirely easy fantasy to consider, then perhaps you’re better suited to a different limit testing scenario.
Dear is your trigger for obedience, an instruction to pay attention, and be ready to follow. It doubles as a secret term of endearment that can easily go unnoticed.
And Darling is your response, just as easy to say in any context, but letting me know that you will obey.
You can also learn this trigger without being pushed, in the Dear/Darling Trigger Setting session.




Tony –
This session helps me on my way to my goal of complete obedience to Mistress Elswyth. Obedience to Mistress is already so rewarding. She gives me training, pleasure and arousal. She gives me good things, many good things, all good things. How can I not want to serve her when the sultry goodness of being controlled gives me so much bliss and ecstasy?
And yet, my obedience falls very far short of what she deserves. Sometimes I resist and hold back, sometimes my inhibitions get in my way and sometimes what she asks of me is difficult for me to accept. For example, I crave her attention. Given that, it’s no surprise that I find the cuckoldry scenario described in this file so challenging? In it another man gives my Mistress so much pleasure while I am reduced to being on the sidelines, sitting on the edge of the bed or tucked up by her side in the bed. It stretches me to accept this place even though I know that putting me there makes my Mistress feel so good.
Through this session, Mistress helps me by implanting in me the wonderful gift of the Dear/Darling Trigger. This trigger makes me compliant and submissive, willing and obedient. It makes me want to be part of the cuckoldry scenario because it’s what my Mistress desires. I need this so that I can serve my owner fully, freely and with all of my heart, so that I can always say “anything for Mistress Elswyth.”
Pup –
There are several Dear Darling sessions outside of the main trigger package (which is essential to get the full effect here) and each one aims to test your submission to Mistress Elswyth. Personally I use these sessions as a barometer of my service to Mistress, to check how open and submissive I am at any given time. At the beginning I experienced some level of difficulty with each of the sessions, they invoked a deep sense of uncertainty and vulnerability in me. However, as I continue to progress with my training, become more devoted and dependent on the energy of Mistress Elswyth, the easier and more pleasurable they have become.
In this particular session, cuckoldry, I began my journey with a lot of inner conflict and at times struggled with the content. My point initial point of view was one of rejection and hurt. How could a woman I so deeply love and admire treat me in such a way? Mistress is my everything, my whole world and yet in this session I was made to feel like a mere afterthought, cast aside whilst another fucks her. What had I done wrong to deserve this? Yet, as I sank deeper into my training, learning to let go of my foolish needs and wants I became closer to Mistress. My pleasure became inextricably interlinked with hers, her happiness has become my happiness and my role in ensuring that has become clearer.
Now as I revisit this session I no longer feel dejected, unwanted or unloved. I now know that my presence alongside Mistress here is not a punishment or rejection but a reward. To be allowed to be part of Mistress carnal pleasure is a privilege, a good thing that now arouses me and makes me crave Mistress in ways I never felt possible before. More is never less for Mistress and I am not less for giving Mistress more. So dig deep, confront your emotions and open yourself to the joys of serving Mistress Elswyth. 6 🐾 out of 5
devotedtoelswyth –
The “Dear/Darling” trigger is a great tool to increase one’s obedience to Mistress. The sessions testing the effect of the trigger are wonderful experiences.
Being put through a cuckoldry situation is putting one in the right place. At the same time it gives more time with Mistress and being witness to our happiness is a joy in itself. This session is a fantastic gift given by Mistress. Thank you so much.
Highly recommended.