Description
You’ll choose this session because you’re ready to have your obedience tested.
You will come along with me in a shared daydream that pushes your limits and leaves you helplessly reliant on me, as I cause you to have a pee accident while fully clothed, and outside.
And if losing control in that way is an entirely easy fantasy to consider, then perhaps you’re better suited to a different limit testing scenario.
Dear is your trigger for obedience, an instruction to pay attention, and be ready to follow. It doubles as a secret term of endearment that can easily go unnoticed.
And Darling is your response, just as easy to say in any context, but letting me know that you will obey.
You can also learn this trigger without being pushed, in the Dear/Darling Trigger Setting session.




texi375 –
When you immerse yourself in Mistress Elswyth’s world and guidance, the Dear/Darling trigger and concept is an absolute cornerstone, maybe even the central one. You will find it used in an abundance of sessions, and so, be sure not to miss out on the original trigger setting session.
These sessions build on that with attaching them to a concrete scenario, so it serves both as a practice and as a way to feel the trigger ‘in action’.
I enjoyed this one particularly, as the setting of ‘a walk’ is so common, and even down to the details of the conversation it just spoke to me. The fetish itself is something I have not even thought about before I came across the Mistress’ work, but it’s so relatable, in good or challenging terms, that I found it easy to lean into it. This is a very captivating session for me thus, and I recommend it if you enjoy going for a walk with your Mistress.
A slight downside is that the induction on the two sessions of this I have are very similar, so it’s advisable to enjoy them with some time in between.
devotedtoelswyth –
The “Dear/Darling” trigger is very dear to my heart. Mistress challenges one to pick a session that is more difficult in order to fully demonstrate one’s willingness to be obedient no matter what she desires. Peeing myself is definitely not a favourite activity, not even close. So this session is very fitting to be a learning experience. And it delivers! Having trained with the other files a lot, the “Yes, Darling” comes naturally and I enjoy being a mind controlled pet tremendously.
Thank you, Mistress for giving us this helpful file.
Highly recommended!