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Obedience. Isn’t that a lovely word?
I obey. Isn’t that the perfect sentence? (or answer.. or mantra..)
Today’s Eunoia is focused on the priceless gift that you give to me.
I grew up hearing a quote that has been said in different ways, by different people. The idea behind it is knowing who you are by paying attention to what you do that is unseen. I decided to skip the CS Lewis version and share John Wooden instead….
“Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are…the true test of a man’s character is what he does when no one is watching.”
John Wooden
For a submissive man, that may be holding a pose even when Mistress isn’t there to see him. It could require remaining chaste, even when he isn’t locked. Or perhaps being mindful of those thoughts that can so easily poison a day.
Our relationship is mostly unseen, but you make progress and show your obedience. That speaks highly of your character.

Thank you Mistress.
I experience wonderful frisson with simultaneous fear and excitement when you say, “Obey!” or when I say, “I obey!”
Thank you for introducing me to the term eunoia. Beautiful thoughts! This is something that I have being doing for some time, because I love to please others and being appreciated and respected back, but it is much easier now I have a name for it. You are helping me be a better and kinder person.