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Can you personalize a femdom hypnosis relationship?

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Is your experience unique to you? Is it possible to personalize a long-distance Femdom hypnosis relationship? 

This Eunoia topic will lead to an interactive kneeling session. I’m using the topic of kneeling, during hypnosis, as a way to deconstruct the ways to experience SbE Femdom hypnosis. Does it need to be physical movement? Is this all in my mind?

I use the Forniphilia session as an example.

D writes:

Dear Mistress, What a spell. I am frozen in pleasure and need to do things, but I am so orgasmic in my whole body. I can send pleasure everywhere I want. I wish I was in the castle room and tied up so I could moan. Can you see my open mouth, your fingers inside me, and my shining eyes. I am going to breathe into my third eye to leave you for a while. I am going to try. I failed. I am breathing into my body, as if I am inflatable for mistress, every part of me open and vulnerable and sensitive and frozen. Your toy!

ME – He goes on.. but I think you get the idea. Scrumptious, isn’t it?

R writes:

Dear Mistress, I thought that I had everything that I needed and wanted, that I was content. Then one day I heard your voice and could not stop listening. Today when I listened to your words and reflected I was actually able to see myself standing there as if at an airport waiting for everyone that I love so much to get off that plane, so excited to see them. And because of You I believe that I can show them all how much I love them. A bear hug as you said, sharing memories, sharing more of myself with them and seeing more of them, seeing that they all brought that energy into my life as well. Because of you I can share the best me with all of them. It is the energy from this new relationship that can be spread out and shared so that everyone in my life can experience it. Thank you Mistress.

ME – You’re welcome. Thank YOU for taking the time to share this with me. I love that you *get* it so completely.

V writes:

Dear Mistress, Regarding the spark and ways to describe it, I‘ll start by saying I adored the airport analogy!  If it’s possible to add another dimension to it, I could also describe it as a floating “do no wrong” feeling that, if I take a step back and look at everyday life,  I find I apply to daily interactions with most people I meet. Some could call it “Devil’s Advocate” but I find giving everyone the benefit of the doubt often leads to the most positive outcomes in any given situation. In a world where feelings and thoughts can be warped or misconstrued in a text or a tweet (no Twitter for me, sorry), I will always choose a kind word or thought to help someone’s day along.  As I am  continually broken and remade, I have embraced this daily goal and I am a better person for it.  Eternal thanks to you, my Empress.

Sincerely yours, V

ME – I agree with you. How do you keep yourself in that mindset when you are having one of those off days – late out the door, can’t find your keys, etc..?

A few links from the conversations.

Violet – A voice in the background (non-hypno) session, talking about finding Sabriel.

The Eternal Suitor – The Sabriel trigger setting session.

The Apartment – A mind control session.

Forniphilia – Human furniture, priceless statue.. you can be anything I want, can’t you?

R writes:

Dear Mistress,

This mans motivation comes from a desire to serve his Mistress. He wants so badly to experience what it feels like to be used for pleasure. What it must feel like to please his Mistress and know that she has enjoyed using him. He wants to know that he is owned and that he is collared. He wants to know that his search is over so that he may kneel at Mistress Elswyths side ready to rise when commanded and be anything that she chooses.This does not mean that he is not a gentleman,it simply means that he is her gentleman. Mistress has all the control and anything that she denies him is frustrating, on the other hand any attention that she gives him is forever cherished.

I hope I am on track.

Sincerely Yours, R

ME – You are definitely on the right track. But I had no doubt that you’d get it.

R writes:

Dear Mistress I am enthralled.  How would you feel having a really old guy as a loyal sub?

ME – I answer this one on today’s Eunoia, with a bit about hamsters.. anyway, I get this question a lot about too old/young. 18+ is the only requirement.

D writes:

Dear Mistress, I became Sabriel. That, that, that file is mind blowing and addictive, but in the best way: progress and sexual submission of the highest order. You are a great writing teacher too, taken all of the notes you received, found the similar themes, and dropped lines that many of us would latch onto. Yet, almost all of the lines feel like they were written for me. Crazy and magical! What a gift to have the ability to lose myself in that file, with that trigger providing a hypno bomb into my neural pathways. I am Sabriel but also literary D(analyzing/loving file structure, lack of induction, music, number deepeners, variation in dynamics…) and finally the beloved pet, who must come when called. So when I need to be owned, dominated, seduced, prodded, or wherever you lead I can follow, I have a file to keep close, and be close to you. If Sabriel needs to vanish, I have my personal file to release me from that trigger, and go back to Amalfi. Please take this slow indeed. I have so much to learn, take, give, and love. And I wish had time to scour your feed to listen to what makes you laugh and what book I can quote; Sabriel demands it. LOL you are good hypno goddess artist word rune maker mistress. Still working on Empress.

ME – The book that I loved for ages, but do not own a copy of, is Tryst. It was out of print and expensive (I was tempted to steal it from the library) and then.. time passed and I’ve decided I don’t want to buy it for myself. I do have a .pdf copy.

D writes:

Dear Mistress, This morning all my office mates talked about their vacations, the gardening projects or finally getting the vaccine. I was like didn’t any of you adopt three new personas or hang out in a latex bed?

B writes:

Dear Mistress,

I think the goals of the man who can’t have fun until the chores are done are to have things in his environment in order and under control. I imagine that someone using a cup or a plate as soon as he has finished the dishes would frustrate him. Or someone putting something somewhere it doesn’t ‘belong’.

I played PUBG today. While I earned a few ‘chicken dinners’ in the game, my ultimate win for the day is listening to Your words. I am about to listen to ‘Going deeper faster’ again before I sleep. Qualifying for a permissive circumstance is a nice bonus. 

I hope You have (or had, depending on where You are) a beautiful day apart from the Covid test.

Sincerely yours, B

D writes:

Dear Mistress, Please share with all your Sabriels the albums, films, book of poems, alcohol drinks and sitcoms you love. Also, please add the tea drinking file to open consumption.

ME – Do you mean the “tea drinking” session on making the cup of tea? I liked how many considered that one to be a win. I’ll have a hunt for it.

I use a Hobonichi journal for keeping my life in order. My Useful One bought the weeks version that is exclusively for SbE notes. In my personal one, at the back, it has the “100 Things” spot. A friend used theirs to keep track of 100 board games they played as the year progressed. I FINALLY had a Eureka moment and realized how I’d like to fill mine. With that said.. I don’t keep a mental list of favourites. If you ask my favourite drink, well, it’s the digestif an older gentleman INSISTED I have after a long, lingering lunch full of google translate, laughter, and terrible English (his) and Italian (mine) with others chiming in.

My fav sitcom (currently) is Coupling (UK version) that I watched semi-recently even though I think it is a decade or so old?A friend insisted I give it a try and it literally makes me laugh and I’m usually not a fan of sitcoms. Fav album? Not sure, but when I just need something to play for a while Appalachian Spring by Copland is a go to.

E writes:

Dearest Mistress,

I’m sorry to double up on my messages/notes to you. I just wanted to let you know about my experience with the Release from Chastity and Chair/HFO sessions.

I listened to them a few times over the past 2 days and they were wonderful. I treated myself to a hot bath so that my muscles were more relaxed before i listened to them. After this i oiled myself slowly by the light of a candle before i lay down on my bed. Lying there in bed all glistening made me feel so special and so dirty all at the same time.

It was a wonderfully frustrating feeling not having physical release, which i’m a fan of since i’m doing the orgasm denial thing for myself. I found myself squirming and almost thrashing around as i repeated the sessions. I tried to bite down on a piece of cloth because i did not want to wake the neighbourhood up! At the end of it all i found a strange sense of calm because it almost felt like a spiritual release. I found myself giggling to myself and smiling which surprised me.

As i went about the business of life the next day it made me feel so wonderfully special and filthy that i was having these experiences.

I just want to serve you better. I just want to deserve and earn these experiences. I hope this note finds you well.

Yours, E.

ME – “wonderfully special and filthy” should be on a keychain. I know this is a reason why I love lingerie under clothes, triggers used for mind games, and leaving marks on willing playmates so they can feel and see them throughout the day. It is fun. And it is a welcome break from the mundane.