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This is Spoken by Elswyth. the Femdom hypnosis podcast that waffles between gentle, and not quite. Lots of fun for the submissive man.

Today is Day 68, and I have a task for you. Now I know, it makes that heart of yours pitter-patter whenever I say you get to be obedient, doesn’t it?

So here’s your task… meander on over to the website, Spoken by Elswyth dot-com… although you can do that a bit shorter. Elswyth dot-com works as well. Check out today’s MCF. Do you want a hint? Woof-woof. That’s a good hint. And as for your Permissive Circumstance, I think you’ll figure it out when you see the Playlist of MCFs for today.

And that’s it… I’ll see you tomorrow.

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This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with training, hypnosis, triggers, playtime, tasks and rewards. All for that wonderful submissive man.

Here we are, Day 67. Let’s just jump right into it.

Now, it’s not really any surprise, nor is it particularly novel, that there’s a big overlap between the hypnokink lovers out there and people with other kinds of BDSM and fetish interests. That’s why the “Vac Bed Bondage” is one of my best-selling sessions ever, with things like, uh… oh, the “10 Steps to Becoming the Ideal Sissy Cuckold” placing quite highly.

Now I’ve been plotting and scheming for a sort-of sequel to that “10 Step” session that goes into puppy play and pet play and all that good stuff, and was meditating on how much of the language and traits of pet play fits nicely in with BDSM in general. There’s all those one-word commands that are quickly obeyed.

Well… speaking of pets, that was the doggo with that snort. We’ll see if it gets edited out. I don’t care either way, so… Pita, if you want to edit it out, go ahead. If not, leave it.

Anyway, there’s all those ummm… the one word commands that are quickly obeyed, or at least should be, right? Some of you lean towards bratty, and you know it. Sit. Stay. Down. And then there’s collars and leashes, of course, with the silvery tag that reads “Property Elswyth”, or how about begging? Sometimes the only thing that’ll work for me is a well-phrased and desperate, pleading litany of begging.

It is harder than you think. Go ahead and set a timer for two minutes once we’re done and see if you can beg that entire time.

All this to say, I think that almost anyone who has even a little bit of an interest in kink can get involved with the fringes of pet play. Even if it’s just to show submission by curling up at the foot of the bed to sleep, or to enthusiastically beg for more than that.

So, today you have some homework. We all know how fun training can be, and an important part of training is proper rewards. What’s the treat that I could use to motivate you? Is it something that I can carry around in my pocket? Or is it a word or a phrase or a sensation that lets you know you’re getting it right? Something I can give you every time you sit, or roll over, or whatever other trick I’m trying to teach you?

Alt Homework (Puppy Room Question): If you’ve listened to any of those maid training sessions you’ll know what I mean by a “Puppy Room”, because it’s similar to a “Dressing Room”. An imaginary room, a headspace, that helps you find the persona I desire, and that I often will call for with a specific trigger. So a Puppy Room is just that, a room that’s set up with all the things that put you in that proper puppy mood. Your homework today is to think about what goes into your puppy room, what would need to be there to get you in the right frame of mind?

And once you’ve done your homework you have my permission for release today, as long as you’re curled up at the foot of the bed.

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This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with training, hypnosis, triggers, playtime, tasks and rewards. All for that wonderful submissive man.

Today is Day 66. Now, I don’t usually mention this, but in light of the UK having… what, the highest inflation ever, and apparently spring has been cancelled, so now my heat’s running, I am counting on you to either like, or subscribe, or leave a review depending on how it is that you’re listening to me.

Now, for those of you who know me, I don’t really spend a lot of time publicly chatting, so you’ll notice like, the comments and this and that, I don’t do the thing you’re supposed to do for the SEO, and Youtube, and blah-blah-blah-blah-blah, because I spend a decent amount of time answering privately, and you likely know that if you’ve ever reached out to me, it’s quite rare that you won’t receive a response in return.

So, so go ahead, like subscribe, do whatever that it takes that I can go ahead and continue to reach more people, and continue to spend quite a bit of time on this, with you.

So tell me; are you in a public place as you listen to me, today? Or somewhere that you might be watched? I want a teensy-weensy little gesture of obedience, and possibly exhibitionism from you, right now… open your mouth, part your lips. And I mean just a little bit, don’t sit there with your jaw hanging open like you’re catching flies or whatnot, don’t do that. Just a little, making anyone who spots you wonder what you’re gawking at, maybe. I’m sure you’ve got it. Now stay like that until we’re done.

I talk about overt public displays of kink all the time, mostly in one of two different ways; the first is among like-minded folks who understand the game we’re playing. You know, sometimes those are realistic, and sometimes they’re fantastical, taking place in some “Eyes Wide Shut” scenario. Does anybody else remember that movie? You know… where I’m wealthy enough, because the Master and Mistress or whatever they’re always billionaires or whatever. So I’m wealthy enough that I frequent mansions and ballrooms, while still afforded a degree of anonymity. We’re all allowed our “If I hit the Lotto” daydreams, even if we only buy a ticket on New Year’s Eve.

The other way I’ll often mention public play is the truly unrealistic, where all sense of decency has been thrown to the wind and we’re doing something perverse or obscene where any innocent bystander could, and does, see. Perhaps it’s my desire to prove to you that I can make you do something so reckless with the right words, or that I can help you feel comfortable with being so on display.

But that’s all those times where I’ve discarded discretion. What about when we’re playing with something subtle? Like the way you’re trying right now to make sure your lips don’t touch when you swallow. Or using that pet name for you… what was it dear?

Or there’s those triggers I love to use when you’re not expecting them. Would a hotel desk clerk spot the effect of a discrete application of “Pour”? Would that girl at the deli counter notice how you blush in response to a chiding “Naughty Bunny”? It doesn’t matter if they see your response or not, just that you can wonder if they do.

In a way the word runes I place in your mind are equivalent to a toy… you know those really good toys that you might wear as we’re out and about, the kind that responds to the push of a button on my phone with a pulse, or a buzz, or a zap. A type of control that doesn’t require a conscious decision on your part to obey or not.

Speaking of which, if you kept your lips parted this whole time, you can have your release today. And if you have some thoughts on this kind of discrete public play, send me a polite note. I want to hear what you’re thinking about.

See you tomorrow.

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This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast dedicated to making my perfectly submissive guy.

Today is Day 64. Tomorrow… tomorrow is a bit of fun. We’re going to be up to 15 minutes. And I have you doing something that once upon a time I probably wouldn’t have enjoyed, but hey… we all change.

Speaking of enjoyment, I have really all the messages trickling in due to response for Day 61. Remember that one?

If you just heard a sigh, it’s the dog, not me.

So for Day 61 I talked about whether or not you’re a good subject for hypnosis, or actually how I can spot a good subject by the things they tell me, experiences they’ve had, things they do, and so on.

Well, I never fail to be amazed by some of the hobbies, and habits, and daydreams that you get up to. It’s… uh. It’s right up there with the guy in the café talking about how he went to see that movie for the soundtrack. I just love it, I just love it, love it, love it.

So well done. If you haven’t shared, maybe you’re, I don’t know… feeling a little shy? Go on, tell me about your hobby. Tell me about your passion, and if none of those, tell me about your favourite book. The scene that has stuck with you forever, or hah… the cliché one, right? Somebody hands you a check for a million dollars, pounds, etcetera. What do you go off and do?

But that one’s not nearly as fun as the other questions, at least I don’t think so.

Okay, your task for today is to give a round of applause to my observant ones who notes which days happened to be missing tasks and permissive circumstances. If you’re one of them, accept the applause, and enjoy your release.

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The editor is putting the finishing touches on a full length session about my Lady’s maid Margaret. I expect it’ll be released tomorrow. In the meantime, all the Maid Training Sessions are on sale, at least until the 9th of April.

The 15-minute version of the Getting Longer endurance session is due out on Friday, and yes it will creep up in price at the same time.

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This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with training, triggers, playtime, tasks and rewards, all for that wonderful submissive man.

Today is Day 63, and we’re going to talk a little bit about clothes. So what kind of guy are you… are you just practical? Jeans and a t-shirt? Are you a little bit of a fashionista, and like staying up on current trends? Or are you the always-classic. You know what I mean? Like a few really nicely fitting pieces that seem to last you forever, because they’re quality?

How would you feel in a Femdom relationship if everything got chosen for you? The shirt? Trousers? Socks, underwear, even the shoes. Does that thrill you? Does it make you a bit nervous that it might take you out of that comfort zone? If you’re my jeans-and-t-shirt dude, and I decide you’re the nice woolen trousers, and that shirt that fits just right with the buttons, and the collar.

You have to admit if you are my jeans-and-t-shirt-dude, that part of you is thrilled by the idea that I would dress you up, but you in these quality things, and insist that we go out. I know, I know… you’re going to say that’s not you. But my dear, isn’t it fun to not be you? To slip on a different persona like you might a well-tailored jacket.

Okay, well let’s shift this a little bit. Let’s pretend that you have full control of the clothes that you’ve purchased for yourself, so you know… in the drawers and the wardrobe, closet, what-not, all your things.

But, in this scenario, probably mostly unknown by you, some of the clothes have properties. Triggers. Attached to them. So your underwear and sock drawer it’s basically a roulette… it’s basically a roulette of options.

How long do you think it would take for you to figure it out, hmmm? You know those blue and white, striped boxer-briefs that always make you feel… I don’t know… like a little empty, somewhere? Like a nice toy, finger, etcetera might be the only thing to fill it?

Or how about those baby-blue, silky, thong undies that I know, maybe you don’t wear them all the time, but when you do you find yourself just a bit more orally fixated.

Or hell, let’s say socks… you know, you could have, this could be used for good, right? Well… for healthy good. The socks that you put on that just motivate you to go that extra mile, or kilometer, you know, depending on what you like to use to measure.

That favourite shirt, that now really makes you feel powerful. Confident. Self-assured and definitely sexy.

And finally, in case all this… progress, the motivational socks, the shirt of confidence isn’t quite your cup of tea today, how about an undershirt that never fails to inspire blushing. Even if you don’t know why you are.

Ah, control. Don’t we love it? Don’t you love giving it over, and getting good things in return. So share with me your thoughts. Surprise me and be creative. Match something of the mundane to an emotion, desire, and tell me what it is. Bye for now.

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This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom Hypnosis podcast with plenty of triggers and playtime for the right submissive man.

Today is Day 62, and this is a Position Meditation Session that you can use again and again. If you’re in public, that’s find, but you do need to be able to close your eyes.

Slowly inhale from the belly, into the ribs, chest, top of the head. Hold.
And now reverse, exhale, top of the head, chest, ribs, belly. Hold.

Inhale. Belly, ribs, chest, head. Hold.
Exhale. Head, ribs, chest, belly. Hold.

In again. Belly, ribs, chest, head. Hold.
And out. Head, chest, ribs, belly. Keep breathing, through that way.

And as you exhale, visualise tension, stress, worries, draining from your body, down. Either breathing it out, or letting it go, down. Further down, through your toes. Melting away.

Concentrating on your breath, while you’re imagining releasing stress, it gives you something to focus on while also benefiting from this deep breathing that you’re doing.

This gift to yourself, that never fails to make you feel better, it’s worth this very short moment of time together. The breathing, up and deep, and the out, and letting go. When you work on clearing your thoughts, instead of focussing on thinking of nothing, you’re focussing on being. Letting thoughts come, letting them go, and bringing your focus back to us. Back to right now.

Our togetherness becomes the meditation. It is the focus. It is the source of you feeling better, and you always do, whenever you take these few short minutes to listen to me.

So one last really good deep breath in, filling yourself up.
And then letting it all out.
Well done.

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This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom Hypnosis podcast with plenty of triggers and playtime for the right submissive man.

Welcome to Day 61. Now, it’s not going to take an observant fellow to realise that there’s been quite a break. Well, not huge… but enough of a break between Day 60 and now. Rest assured, it was for a really stupid reason. I would love to say that I went away on this gorgeous spring weekend to some hedonistic festival out in a field, with lots of love and happiness, and I don’t know… whatever else that could go on.

Then again, it wasn’t actually warm enough. It was sunny, but not warm enough for hedonism in a field. I think it would have need to happen in a somewhat classy, decent hotel instead.

But, that’s not the reason for the delay. I ended up experiencing, and I’m still experiencing it, something so ridiculous I didn’t realise it could happen. I guess there’s something that can occur if you are sleep deprived, which my couple of days away to a seaside town for pleasure did lead to… and then taking a journey. Plane, train, whatever, and changing elevations like when your ears pop and so on.

Anyway, since returning back to my home I’ve… keep experiencing periods of like, my own personal train ride. It’s ridiculous, it’s so ridiculous. The GP swears it just goes away after a bit, but he wanted me to limit my screen time, so that’s what I’ve been attempting to do. But I’ve actually had enough, so… so we’re back.

And I figure in the effort to not have a bunch of screen time and reading, I’m going to talk about a subject that I’ve been asked about quite a bit. How do you know this will work for you?

Now, I’ve been asked that many times in a professional setting. People who are using hypnosis for changing habits, for pain reduction, for letting go of certain memories, confidence, so on. All the… I’m gonna do air quotes, all the normal reasons to go see a hypnotherapist.

And honestly, even for this our… well, what do we want to call it? The hypnofetish, erotic hypnosis, hypnokink… I can’t think of any more off the top of my head, so whatever you want to call it, it’s very similar.

Now, I know that if the person I am seeing has experienced hypnosis in the past, well that’s an easy no-brainer, right? If they have someone who they respect and like (those don’t always go hand-in-hand) but if they have someone like that in their life who has also experienced hypnosis, chances are they’re going to be a good subject for it. So, say their best friend “Bob” refers them; probably going to work.

Now, if their co-worker Bob who they detest and look down on says “Hey man, you gotta try this.” maybe not? It just depends. Outside of that, because I don’t think who we are should depend on those around us, I will tell you that people who enjoy reading, they have that imagination, they have that attention span. Quite a few of them, you know… you imagine yourself in the plot… that’s an easy win.

If you are a reader, I have you.

Let’s say you’re only reading Reddit and magazines and the subtitles on TikTok, well… maybe not? But are you horny? Because if you’re horny, that can overcome… everything just about. You know, there’s that running thing, you know the thing that you will do at 2AM is not always the thing you will do at 2PM, so if you’re struggling, listen to me at 2AM. Like, you know… if you’re not quite sure if you wanna be a flirty French Maid, 2AM, go for it.

So what else? Uh… hobbies. Do you have hobbies? Or none? Now, there are some of you who are like me and when you meet somebody who has literally no hobbies, you’re floored. I can’t ever wrap my brain around that; somebody who literally has no hobbies. I mean, what do you do? What does your brain do in down-times? I don’t get it. So if you have literally no hobbies, we might not be a good fit.

And then there’s another one. It’s… this one’s a bit cliché. If you’ve ever been to a hypnotherapist, you might have had this done. They basically say, if you had X-amount of money, you know… a good amount. Let’s just say 500-thousand-million-whatever. Where would you go? And why?

Now, if somebody says “Ummm… to the beach, for a tan.” that’s not very promising. Now if someone says “I’ve always wanted to go to X-Y-Z because blank, and I love yadda-yadda, and they just go on, and they paint this picture for me, of where they would go, why they would go, what they would be doing… well. I know I have you.

And going back to the hobby thing, it doesn’t have to be something like restoring an old car, or breeding orchids, or whatever. Learning Spanish guitar. It can be a passion. I once, and I think I’ve told this story before, but I once instantly fell in love with this person who was talking to another person in the coffee shop I happened to be sitting in, and he was so excited to tell this person about a movie he’d just recently watched because his passion happened to be soundtracks. And he would actually watch certain movies just because of who composed and put together the soundtrack.

But his passion for it was fantastic. It did not come across as pretentious which could be easy for someone like that to do… but his was genuine. And fantastic. So if you have that kind of a passion, especially something that lives up in your head and excites then I probably have you as well.

But I’ll be honest, for our little Femdom hypnosis thing here, it also really helps when you’re horny. So that is it for Day 61, on Day 65 we will have another Getting Longer session. It’s actually done, it just can’t get released until Day 65. And I almost cheated and put it out today, because I can’t wait to get feedback on it. But patience is a virtue.

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This is Spoken by Elswyth. The Femdom hypnosis podcast with useful training for the submissive man.

Today is Day 59. Now, if you remember back on Day 56 we talked about knots saving your life. Not just your sex life, though I believe…

I believe if you add the right toy, and I have suggestions if you need some. Not selling any. Don’t have like… some affiliate program going on out there, though if the people who make bluetooth toys wanna hook up with me and give me some freebies, I’m all for it. Hell, if they want to give yummy toys to like… my audience at large so that I can…

I’m imagining myself, sorry, we’re getting off topic here but I guess the topic is always about me controlling you, right? I’m imagining having like this master/mistress control board where I could push some buttons and you know, give this person a zap, and that person a tingle, and this person a squeeze and so on. This little orchestra of perversion.

Mmm… ahhh… yeah. I could have fun with that.

Okay, but I’m gonna have to add a bit more to it. I’m really sorry, but y’all are gonna have to put some cameras up, ’cause I know, I know, this hypnokink. This erotic hypnosis, fetish play we have going on, a lot of it’s happening up here in our brains. But if I have, let’s just say if I have an easily controlled, plug up your ass, I wanna see your face as I’m pushing the buttons.

Okay, now I literally do not remember what I was supposed to be going over with you for Day 59. Does it matter? No. We’re just having some delicious fun.

Oh, I remember now. I was going to share some of the ways that people have said that knots have saved their lives. Well, that’s going to wait for later now.

Uhh, just a reminder; tomorrow for Day 60, ooh, it’s getting longer. That one session, remember that? We’re going to have the same introduction, and then a deepener. And then Day 65, yeah, you’re gonna love Day 65. I promise. And if you don’t love it, well… I can always help you see the light.

Your task for today… your task for today kinda ties into the Permissive Circumstance. Your task, is you are gonna jerk it off, thinking about the plug in your bottom that I’m controlling. Your Permissive Circumstance, it’s a “Yes”.

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The new Getting Longer session is now available. The first update is already written, recorded, edited, and ready to be released on the 23rd of March.

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This is Spoken by Elswyth, the Femdom hypnosis Podcast with useful training for the submissive man.

Today is Day 55, and as promised I do have something new for you. It’s over on the website.

Now, the way this is going to work is, it’s good for sensation play, stroking, or… just breathing. There will be a certain tone, and that’ll be in the introduction, that whenever you hear that tone, it is time for you to take a deep breath in, stroke, or strike.

Now, for stroking and striking, you will consider it to be your minimum. For breathing, you should find it’s a very familiar and easy pattern to stick with. Do you wanna practice it?

Breathe in. And out.
Breathe in. And out.

It’s about seven or eight seconds for that breathing in, and back out. And that’s what you’re going to hear. Now rather than hear me say “Breathe in, and out, and in, and out, in, out, in, out, in-out, in-out, in-out” wait, I don’t think that’s my rhythm… do you have a preferred rhythm?

Anyway, instead of hearing me say that you will hear a specific sound. Follow along with that. Again, that is your cue to breathe in. It is also your minimum time for stroking.

Now, our beginning one is only five minutes, so that’s pretty easy. If you’re choosing to stroke, you’re going to find you’re not really going to even end up edging. Well, likely not. You might be, at the ten-minute mark. But the first bit, on Day 55, five minutes long, likely not. So you can go faster. And that’s fine… you can’t go slower, and you can’t stop.

So by the time we get to day… eighty-five, ninety-five, that might prove to be an interesting challenge. But at least you know you have about eight seconds of recovery time.

For those choosing to use the sound for sensation, whether it’s your hand, your Ouchie Stick, hairbrush, something else? Again, that sound it’s your minimum. So you can go faster if you want, you just can’t go slower, and can’t stop. So you may need to pace the severity, especially as this gets longer.

Now for those of you choosing to simply use it as a breathing exercise, a breathing reminder, I seriously doubt you’re going to want to go faster, or slower, or fuck… stop. But if for some reason you find you’ve lost your pacing or something, it is okay to find your rhythm and then get back to mine. It’s the same rhythm you’ve used through lots of sessions with me, so chances are you’re not going to find it too challenging, whether you’re doing it for five minutes or thirty-five minutes, as you know this part of the season progresses.

I believe in you.

So, go download the first five minutes, and on Day 60, you’ll notice that five minute session is gone, and there will be a ten-minute, but it will start the same way, and we will continue to build… and you, trust me, which I know you do. You’re going to be amazed at how it feels as this season goes on.

For today’s Permissive Circumstance, you have my approval, after you’ve downloaded and listened to the five-minute session. See you tomorrow.