Last week’s Eunoia truly hit home with many people. Not only did I get a slew of personal messages (and I’m getting to them.. I swear!) THREE people had amazing personal moments of realisation. You know I don’t have any qualms about breaking out the cane as necessary which offsets my GFD (and CGL) side too, yeah..? So I’m going to gush a moment.
I’m fucking proud of you. Seriously. One of the responses literally brought tears to my eyes because of the genuine breakthrough experienced. I’m not taking credit for this, we know we’re not doing deep therapy here, but something magical happens when you take quiet time for yourself daily. Something indescribable happens when you have someone willing to “hold space” for you to explore in.. safely, without judgement or real direction given. My reward is having those thoughts and feelings freely shared with me. You know a few weeks ago I had a grumpity grump decide to share His Oh So Serious Concerns about The Limits of Online Relationships and Frustrations. What GG doesn’t know, or hasn’t experienced yet, is that my happy harem and myself have managed to find a balance. Haven’t we? Slow, organic growth of SbE is something that seems to puzzle those numbers, monetization, likes/dislikes, CTR, and all that jazz.. because they think THAT is where the tingle comes from and could they ever be MORE wrong?
So a million and one thank yous to those who trust themselves and me enough to allow for this exploration. And kudos to my three last week/weekend that had those breakthroughs. I love your happiness. I love it.
Alright… onward with Eunoia (late, yeah, yeah..) we are going to visit a party. I will be giving disclaimers of the scenes as we go. This is a voyeuristic experience so you will not be finding yourself being milked or shared. (Now I’m wondering who is going to google how to milk a guy….) And if anyone knows of a moonlight garden worth visiting in the UK, let me know! warmly, M. E.
It’s late. I know. I’m *cold* and spent most of the morning wrapped in a blanket letting Spotify entertain me with video game soundtracks (they’re a thing, who knew? I didn’t until last March).
I warned one of my happy harem that hibernation is growing in its appeal.
I’ve lived in many different places, including very northern states and mountainous areas, but UK winters really do me in. The stone houses and obession with quirky heating rituals adds up to one shivery Mistress.
Instead of writing delightful smut last night, I found myself researching how to make a house feel warmer. I think the culprit is humidity so one spiffy new dehumidifier is on its way to me.
If it doesn’t work, I’ll see y’all in the spring.. or when I’ve relocated to a warmer climate.. or a new build house with American style central heating. Brrr.
I know that the ones who come *here* to find Eunoia will know this one. You’re usually the ones that pay close attention and love the little games.
I enjoyed doing this week’s Eunoia, though I think for next week we may change direction entirely. Should we focus on creativity? Should we focus on which sex toys offer the best ROI? Or maybe focus on .. focus? I’m thinking of something flirty that blends together focus, creativity, and.. um.. well, that’s it, really. Focus and creativity.
I do need something from you. I’ll likely post the same on Patreon for those too shy to share here (or just send me a message that way?).
What is your evening “ritual” before bed? Do you even have one? Be descriptive. Love, Mistress
I blame all rambling below on the fact that Bilingual is playing in my ears. “Because all of that is for me..” is likely my favourite line.
The image appeared on my Twitter feed and I had to share it. Much like Cookie shares pics of statue butts.. I like to share cutesy flirty things. This particular (probably fake) exchange brought to mind the time a romantic interest of mine managed to trick me in a simple way.
Ridiculous, yet oddly funny, tweet share
We had an online chat happening, with other friends in it, and he wrote a few things in white text — telling me to highlight it to get it to appear on my white background. It was sweet flirtation that always hits home with that NRE going strong, right?
Anyway.. that “hidden” white text turned naughtier and naughtier.. until finally he poked fun and asked me if I thought *everyone* in the chat had a white background. At that, about 1/3 (the non-white background chatters) of folks admitted to following along. A few seemed quite disappointed he cut off the nsfw chat… and others merrily learned how to highlight to find the hidden white-on-white text.
He is the same guy that tried to convince me to “shake out” my laptop cord. He claimed it would make it charge faster if I removed the so-called stagnant charges. I didn’t fall for that one.
Next week’s Eunoia theme is Loyalty.. multiplied, twisted, and used in the most Domly’ish of ways. It won’t be for everyone and that’s okay.
The daily six minute meditations slowly build to take the idea of loyalty to an extreme. I hesitate to give it away entirely because, well, isn’t that part of the fun?
If you’re deeply religious, it may offend or simply be off-putting entirely. It isn’t mean-spirited nor will you find yourself in a masochistic heap with wooden spoon welts covering your body (well, you CAN do that.. but it isn’t part of the meditations..).
A follower had asked if it is possible for a Mistress to replace “first loyalties” and that is what I used as my inspiration. For those of you who know me, you know that I’ll go to allllll kinds of places just for fun. I like sweet lovemaking with whispered words of endearment as much as I like feeling a hand in my hair as I run my nails deeply down his skin.
I enjoy dressing someone up in gorgeous clothes as much as I like symmetrical cane lines and coloured wax dripped all over. I like the mindless statue in the corner, or perhaps sat on the bed *just so*… and I like the service submissive that reminds me to call my mother.
All of it.
All of the play is good. But all of the play does include being intertwined and authentic care behind it. I can take people to ALL kinds of places because I know, and most of you know, that the foundation of trust is there. If I oops (and, yes, I have..) I fix it.
So this particular week takes loyalty to a different place. One that people may consider unhealthy or perhaps touches on non-consent because I’m not disclosing all of it ahead of time.
I will say, I think this week is a bit of a love note for those who need it this way. It is the same as telling someone you’ll always be with them – it’s not a threat, though could be twisted as such, it is a phrase to show a desire for a lifetime relationship. So the meditation this week could be twisted into something dark … but I prefer to think of it as something deep and a play on a shared reality. For those of you who, like me, spend a lot of time living in your head, it may inspire a strong reaction and new ideas. For others, it may come across as too strong, too much, too… whatever.
Why such a long disclaimer? Because Spoken by Elswyth attracts people from a large spectrum. For every person that asks for gentle femdom, there’s another person begging for harsher sensation play. The person who wants to be tricked and crushed into submission is balanced by the person that avoids all name-calling or anxiety-provoking content. I don’t want to do blatant disclaimers because I do know that the majority of you like the adventure of not knowing. I do want to offer enough of a disclaimer that an unwitting person doesn’t listen without warning.
So if you’re really turned off by goddess ideas – skip this week. If you definitely don’t like uh.. angels? – skip this week. And if you can’t imagine adding movement to your meditation – this isn’t your week either.
For the rest of you lovely souls let’s see where this week takes us?
Today starts my nation’s two week “fire break” lockdown, pokemon go’s halloween event, and the weekend. I’ve heard rumours of another lockdown/fire-circuit break being planned for the Christmas into New Year’s holiday.
I’m tempted to see if it falls under guidelines to rent a cabin in the hills for the period? Probably not. Although.. what could be cozier than two weeks tucked into a cabin with friends and the doggo during the holidays..?
