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Eunoia – Findom, Pain, and Science

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How is that for a title? I’ve been nagged by the SEO program to use variety in titles. And, honestly, I get why a bunch of posts titled “Eunoia – Wednesday” don’t work in the long run. My creativity still goes towards sessions more than SEO – but I’m alright with throwing out nonsensical titles.

Today’s episode actually *does* cover all three of those topics. How, you ask? Because I’m brilliant. And because one gentleman asked about findom, another mentioned pain relief, and the science ties into our personas.

I also mention a library. For those of you who loyally visit SbE, I decided to treat you with part of the story in today’s post. Want all of the story? Convince me. (Ooooh.. that might excite the findom dude! For the low, low price of — wait, I don’t think that’s right.)

Every man has their purpose. That is what the stories say, and while there are elements of that which are true, the reality is that purpose isn’t unique to that specific man. The reality is that those specific purposes can be narrowed down to three main characteristics. Their brain, their beauty and their strength.

Snippet from The Library.

For those of you unfamiliar with findom, I realise I should include a somewhat simplistic definition. Findom stands for financial domination. Simply put, men involved in findom send expensive gifts, give regular sums of money (the amount is set by the woman) or even allow the unknown woman to have complete control over his finances. There is no sexual exchange and in the majority of cases the two never meet. Occasionally men ask their domme to blackmail them, all however, submit in the relationship and expect to be spoken to harshly and insulted.

Now, I know. I know there is JimBob in SmallPlace, DeepSouth who would argue — and his kin would likely agree — that anyone with a Patreon using “adult subject matter” is participating in findom. But what JimBob doesn’t get (other than blowjobs and pegging..) is the reality that there is a difference. One is focused entirely on the money being the thrill. And if people have that as their fetish, I honestly have zero problems with it. Money flows where money flows and I’m a believer in that. I do question why it’s often assumed that “Domme with an online presence” means I’ll participate in findom. Even one of my dearest, loveliest faithful followers fell into that trap when we first met — hinting that he’d be willing to pay more if I could get it out of him.

Maybe it is because of my beliefs regarding money that I can’t take it seriously. I enjoy money, I enjoy gifts, but I also enjoy creativity in all forms. I can’t find the creative angle in it. Maybe if I had a weekend french maid who hung up a tenner with every piece of laundry? That might work.

Does anyone want to play french maid?

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Eunoia – Watch the video. I insist.

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I hope you’re having a wonderful Thursday. It isn’t the typical Monday month start that I adore, but it is sunny and gorgeous.. and all things spring.

Plus, I have even more naughty pics, videos, and voice files in my inbox. Ooh.. I love being spoiled!

We are jumping right into exploring another type of creativity. It does tie into some smutty-useful-fun sessions coming out during this month.. and, hey, it’s just fun.

I love when we play together in my shared reality. Check over previous days if you want to participate in the Grand Data Collection (aka google forms) on personas and the like. You can use the form to submit your homework. You’re on the honor system for today’s permissive circumstance.

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Eunoia – Transcend and Meatloaf – plus, a poll!

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Today’s Eunoia includes a question from a follower regarding personal circumstances. Everyone is able to vote in the poll, it is public access on Patreon. Correction — that one is only available to Patrons, I didn’t realise Patreon doesn’t allow public polls.

New open-access poll:

But much like the state of .. oh, wait.. That’s politics. I’ll skip it. Let’s just say, the final decision rests with me, I just want to see what *others* think. I bet you do too.

Eunoia’s format is shifting. Thank you to my dear ones who share their polite, constructive notes with me. I have willing volunteers to discuss maid training, affirmations, personal growth ideas, and the format of Spoken by Elswyth.

As you know, this isn’t my full-time job and it is my goal to continue to make it never feel like a job at all. The feedback I’ve received on structure allows for a consistent feel to Eunoia. What started off as a couple of minutes of focused time has evolved into this goodwill between us, an open conversation, and I want to keep it that way.

With that said, Eunoia will have defined parts. We will always begin with the preamble for shoutouts, answers, and updates. This is followed by time to prepare yourself for our daily devotion and a one minute period of quiet. We’ll wrap up with any homework or permissive circumstances to make it easier for you to get onto that busy – or pleasurable – post-Eunoia bit. 

 After we’ve wrapped up our March, I’m using the beginning part of April to put into place a clever idea given to me by a follower. Previously I tried to stick to one theme per week, but that can be limiting. Instead, we will follow thoughts where they take us. Eunoia will be recorded one day in advance so it’s scheduled to be up early for those AHEAD in the time zones.

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Eunoia March 19 – Ravished (and a PC)

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And what happened to knights when the rules weren’t followed? According to the code, comeuppance ranged from corporal punishment to losing one’s habit (knight’s robes) to banishment from the brotherhood. Lesser infractions sometimes required the sinner to eat his meals on the floor.

It mostly caught my attention due to the “no pointy shoes” bit. I wonder how many men decided THAT was the final straw and didn’t join up? Chastity? Sure. No napkin? Whatever. Decrease meat? Okay.. but give up my prized pointy shoes?!? Never!

Today’s Eunoia has another chance at the permissive circumstance. It also talks a lot about ravishing.. ravished.. and sex dolls.

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Eunoia – Euphoria and Orgasm Control

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Remember our permissive circumstances? Today’s session includes an unlikely (yet fun!) one.

If you’re new or need a refresher The Rules can be found here.

If you’d like to mess with your fellow Happy Harem, send me your ideas for permissive circumstances to weave into Eunoia. I won’t tell you what DAY I plan to use it, but at least you’ll be able to anticipate a few.. right?

Send it to me privately.

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March 1st Eunoia

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For March, we are using vibrations and meditations to focus on our naughty and nice words.

Do you remember those? At the end of 2020, I asked for you to share goal words or phrases with me but required you to send one of each. The response has been fantastic and they continue to trickle in.

Each day, you will be reminded to sit in the same way. If you are unable to do so, simply imagine yourself in that position. You do have a marvellous imagination. I should know, I help fuel it.

I will also ask that you hum. Now, if you’re in a place where you’re unable to make any noise that’s fine. You and I know that you’ll find a time in your day. After all, it’s not as if humming is something to hide. People do it all of the time, but you will be humming for a purpose.

And.. for those that love it, you will find permissive circumstances sprinkled throughout like unexpected, yet welcome, spring showers. Permissive circumstance refers to meeting a requirement to get *ahem* “release”. Different situations, stipulations and other whimsy things will be set out for you.

After the spoken word, there is a short period of music to use for reflection. This month’s Eunoia has no bell tone, instead, the fading of the music is your cue to wrap up your devotion time.

Subscribe so you don’t miss future sessions, like because it’s polite, and comment to let me know how you’re getting on (and, y’know, if you met the permissive circumstance).