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This is Day 48, and I’m still concentrating on ensuring you’ve had some time away from the focused effort of training. But while yesterday was about mindlessness and relaxation, and good books or whatever else, today… today you’re going to have to put in a little more effort.
See, I have an idea for a game, and you are going to play it. Cast your mind back to the early 2000s; and do you remember those branded rubber bands it seemed like almost everyone had around their wrist? Well you’re going to make one. But without the help of durable, difficult to break plastic. Instead, you’re going to find your scissors, maybe a pencil and a ruler, and you’re going to make yourself one roughly the same dimensions out of a single sheet of paper.
No cheating. No folding. No reinforcing with layers of sticky tape; it can be secured in place with just one piece of tape. Oh… and like, no cardboard!
A paper cuff, so much more delicate than leather, or steel. It has to go on your ankle or your wrist, and it has to stay on when you sleep, or when you shower.
Now, this humble token isn’t a symbol of ownership, but in two days it will be a symbol of mindfulness, if it survives being worn by you. Good luck, dear.
Welcome to Day 47. Did you enjoy yesterday’s session? Do you want to enjoy it again today? I hope it left you feeling just as I intended. A little overwhelmed, perhaps? A little on edge? Do you need more of that again, or do you need something easier? A little more relaxing?
Take the time to stretch. If you’re seated, pull your feet up and together, and as best you can, put the soles of your feet against each other, and press your knees down.
And if you’re standing, take a hold of something for the sake of balance, if you need it, and then left one leg up behind you, take a grip of your ankle, and pull it up towards your bottom. Stretch. That’s good.
Oh, and breathe. In. Out. You can let go of your feet. In. Out.
For today, take the day off any other training, and instead use that extra time for something easy. Find your zen activity, whether it’s a mindless game, or a foray into fiction, some time watching the world through the window, or carefully raking around rocks in the sand.
I kind-of recommend reading “The Vegetarian”. Ummm… no, it’s not some entreaty towards giving up meat, it’s this interesting read that you just can’t stop. I finished it easily, in a day.
Anyway, it’s not really zen, but there are some interesting scenes in there. Okay, here we go.
To avoid creating any anxiety around what your coin might determine, today, because I am so generous and because I’m usually in a good mood when I finish an interesting book; today, I give you permission for release, as long as you take the time off I’ve prescribed.
Soon we’re going to look at your goals, and how you’re progressing, but not today.
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Today is Day 46. And it’s going to be a short one. Your Permissive Circumstance, well, it requires that coin flip. And your task for today is to go over to the website, SpokenByElswyth.com and download the free session. Well… the almost, almost-free session. If you’re listening to this on Day 46, or close to it, use the code “Day46”, and you can download the session for free.
If you’ve missed the window for the code, well… it pays to be prompt, doesn’t it?
Don’t forget to send your thank you note, of course. Manners matter.
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Welcome to Day 45. For the last two days I’ve been musing aloud about head-games. You know what I mean by that, by now. All the ways I can enjoy saying one thing while meaning another, or carefully explain something to you while leaving you unsure, uncertain.
So, with that in mind, I want to check in with your training. Your real training, love; the hypnotic triggers you’re willingly, gratefully taking in, allowing them to Penetrate deep into your subconscious, allowing me to call any of my flouncy maids, or my Eternal Suitor whenever I need them, or want them. Or just to take you deep and whisper even more of my thoughts into your ear, as your own thoughts leak out drip by drip, making more room.
Have you been keeping up with those sessions, sticking with the schedule you promised yourself, and me? This is what you wanted, dear. You want structure and training, and if you can’t meet me with discipline and dedication, then I have nothing to offer you.
There’s more to it, yes. You have the stick and statue training you’re undertaking for me, and the little homework assignments I leave for you. But it is an absolute requirement that you spend time absorbing the triggers you crave, you need, and that I need to exercise control over you… who I want.
Before you flip that coin token to seek permission today, take a moment to consider whether you’re meeting your goals. The Naughty and the Nice goals you’re working towards… and the other goals we’ve set. Are your expectations of yourself unrealistic, or perhaps too easy? I know you are capable of being more, for me and for yourself… I also know that you respond well to being challenged, and pushed.
And as you take this time for reflection, this moment to ponder, think… why did I start this firm reminder of what you’re doing here, with a mention of head games? You’ll have to listen again if you missed it… or did you miss it?
As always, I do have something planned for you. And, I’ll see you tomorrow.
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Welcome to Day 44. Way, way back on Day 29 I asked you a question. Do you remember? I asked you why you are here. On day 43 (that was yesterday dear) I poked and prodded you a little about the nature of your submission. It’s my joy and my pleasure to question you, and to make you think about your desires.
It’s also my joy and my pleasure to make you think about my desires, and so often to leave you wondering as to whether I would prefer this or that. Now, in those heaps of shopping receipt that I received, showing the purchase of those few specific items, not one was evidence of an unusual tanning technique. But of course, on that same day I told you that I would choose rope and knots.
So back on Day 40, were you paying attention, or did you dismiss my preference out of hand because you were thinking about your own public humiliation? Did you enjoy some bondage-based session like Bound for Release, or listen to your Rope Bunny Affirmations? Did you spend some time gazing, longing, at pictures of tied up people online? Did you share a few with me, perhaps?
If you remember Day 40 well, and know that your response to my words was to delight in flights of fancy, of how being tightly tied-up might feel, then you have my permission to flip your coin today, and maybe just earn release.
And if you were naughty, and not paying careful attention, if you know that your takeaway from that lesson was that you should go buy condoms, and lube, and veggies, well then don’t you dare flip your coin today.
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Today is Day 43, and if you’re listening in the moment and not some time in the future, you’ll notice that I’ve been gone for a few days. If you’re the type to pay attention to the weather, you’ll probably know that the UK has had quite a few impressive storms going on. So, due to the wind and the rattles and everything else, I just decided to take a break from recording.
Today, it’s still windy but we’re gonna persevere.
Now, I know you’ve been thinking about your Naughty and Nice goals this week. Making plans to meet them. And I’ve been offered a few acts of service in the last few days, wonderful gestures to help with some admin, checking sessions in the shop and even transcribing.
So that’s fantastic, and it did leave me thinking about acts of service, and service submissives in general. Do you know what a service submissive is? Do you consider yourself one? I think that there’s such a fine line, a tight-rope to walk, to be submissive and thoughtful, and not tip over into being more classically dominant. Like, imagine you kept my schedule… helped me work out what I needed to record and when, published my podcast online for me, and filtered my email inbox for spam and nonsense and whatever. Oh, and let’s add in that you also, you kept my social calendar, you acted as an intermediary with friends and cold callers alike.
Now, you can choose to do all this in a white blouse, a pencil skirt and heels at your own discretion.
Ooh, and let’s say that you also cook for me, let me know when the work day is over, remind me to go to bed, oh… but stand by with a towel next to shower. Pack my gym bag and program the coffee machine for the next morning.
Did I just describe a service submissive, or a gentle top?
And of course, I’m surrounded by hyper-competent men by design. The vast majority of those of you in my inbox, you’re creative and intelligent and capable. You generally don’t want to be subjugated, you don’t proclaim that life is too hard, and being submissive is easier. Of course, if that were the case you likely wouldn’t be seeking my attention. I’ll always want to make you work for it.
Spend a little time thinking about acts of service that you’d be likely to do for me. I know, I know, you’re a good boy, and you’d do whatever I asked, but what would you do without guidance? And you can reach out and tell me, again at your discretion.
If you want an orgasm today, first spend at least 10 minutes, yeah that sounds right, first spend at least 10 minutes playing. You can find whatever stimulus works best for today, a session of mine, or whatever images suit your mood. And after those ten minutes, you can flip your coin. Heads for yes, tails for no.
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Welcome to Day 43.
Okay, since today is not going to be for everyone, let’s start with your Permissive Circumstance. Do you remember? That’s right, flip that coin!
And now onto what today is all about. Today is… dedicated to some sissy hypnosis. And in the interest of going “Up One ELO” it’s not just any sissy hypnosis. Nope. Today your full-length session is dedicated to sissy cuckold hypnosis.
And because I love to give you good things, I’m even breaking it down into 10 easy steps. Now you can kind-of like… vote with your downloads on how much you want to have more of this content, right? Okay so… what you need to do is go over to the SpokenByElswyth.com website. And, umm…
Sorry. It always makes me laugh because it makes me think of some of those lead-ins for like… talk radio and such where they just rattle off this website-thing, or a phone number that you hear so many times. I’m sure there’s a couple of you that likely have some, y’know, 1-800 number of etcetera stuck in your head.
Anyway, back to the topic; go over to my website, and the code that you’re going to see a spot to enter is the colour of my favourite lipstick. It doesn’t have to be the brand, it just has to be the colour. And in case the colour is two words, squish it all together, no spaces.
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This is Day 42, and today we’re going to continue on this idea of going up one ELO. I know you have your “Nice” goals in mind. And today we’re going to focus on the time you’ve been spending with your stick or statue practice.
Now, I’ve asked you. Well… told you, to work on developing an understanding of your own limits, with your own “Naughty” goal. You’re on the honor system, as you’re aware, and with respect to your posing, you have some space to make the positions you take match your fantasies. And of course you know what I like.
But today your task… well it’s going to be decided by your coin, just like your Permissive Circumstance.
So before you flip to decide if you get release today, flip your token, and if you get “Heads”, you’re going to find your stick, or adopt your contrapposto. You’re going to aim for as many strokes as you can take comfortably, for as many minutes as you can manage.
And if you flip your token and get tails, well today I’m going to push you. Once you’ve met your usual expectation, once you’ve gotten as far as you’re used to, you’re going to take ten more strokes. Or you’re going to push for three more patient, mindless minutes, really stretch the endurance of those muscles in your legs and arms.
I trust you to find a nice balance, and to know that this extra little show of devotion properly tests you.
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Welcome to Day 41.
So for the next… about seven days, we are going to be working on three things. Luck, Naughty, and Nice… and we’ll check back in on those around Day 48. You could kind-of say that the theme for this week is “up one ELO”. Surely by now you know what an ELO is. Well hopefully, fingers crossed, I’m about to go up one ELO and it’s well deserved.
But for you, you are going to be going up one ELO in your naughty goal, and that’s either the stick, or the statue. And the other is a nice goal. So what you’ll be working on is creativity, health, uh… like dropping sugar, picking out that half marathon to do, and training for it, something like that.
You’re going to take some actionable steps, even if step one, and going up the ELO for you, is simply making a realistic list, or schedule, okay?
And because I have a feeling that those of you who live in North America, or happened to have started following American Football, might need a recovery day, we’re going to keep today short.
You don’t have any tasks, other than thinking over that nice goal, and as for you Permissive Circumstance, we’re going to let the coin decide. Heads for yes, Tails for No. That’s going to be a reoccurring theme for this week, so your happiness and your release is all in the little game of this coin flip.
Oh, and do use your recovery day because you’re going to need to be clever later this week. You’re going to have the chance to earn a mini confusion session reward. Doesn’t that sound like a great Femdom Hypnosis gift, for a submissive guy? Happy Valentine’s Day.
Welcome to Day 40. Yesterday I gave you the gift of denial, and feeling my control over you. Your task was to let me know what you did with that found free time.
For today, I thought that I would let you know two scenarios that were shared with me a while ago, by another top, of ways that she found to fill up her submissive man’s free time.
If, if, you decide to do one or both of these scenarios go ahead, but I do want proof.
So one of them included providing a shopping list and exactly which store to use. Now for those of you in the States it’d likely be a Walmart because God know’s there’s usually nothing busier than the Walmart. For those of you outside of the States, I’d say it’d be that corner shop that’s frequented by many people stopping in during their lunch break, and you know… the after-work crowd.
So, you got the shop, right? And now you need the list. What do you think is on the submissive-man shopping list? I bet my clever one will figure it out by the time I get to the second item… there’s only four.
Item one; cucumber. Item two; lube. Item three; condoms. And item four; it’s not something you can buy, it’s just a strong sense of devotion.
So this is one of the tasks, and it required a receipt as proof. Now does the idea turn you read, or are you one of those who would have absolutely no hesitation to shop for anything, anywhere, any time?
How about this scenario, for my fellow gym-goers who frequent shared showers, or perhaps swimming laps? While I adore the feel of a tanning bed, they’ve yet to make them without significant risk, and you know… I’m not risking you for something as trivial as a tan. So instead, this two-part devotion challenge, yeah it kinda turns into a three-part one.
It requires: One; a bra. Now it can be a sports bra, a fancy bra, a bralette, whatever you feel you could wear to go to… Step two; a spray-tanning location. Now some of these do have the booths where you can just walk in and do it, so nobody’s going to watch what you’re up to, but others don’t. And then, well, heck; step three is just this. You, you have proof of your devotion every time you go for your swim, or gym trip, or you know… shared locker room. Until the tan wears off, of course. And the tan lines are gone.
So which one sounds easier? Or does that even matter… you want to know which I want, right? Well the truth is, for today… for today’s release, my dear man, you would be my rope bunny. Tied in a delightful, decadent way, to show off your finer bits, and then jerked off, by me, ’til I decide I’m done.
One orgasm, two, whatever… how many feel possible for today? Probably more than you can imagine, because yesterday you didn’t release, did you?
