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What is humiliation play? Eunoia May 13

red and white makeup brush

Don’t worry, the upcoming sessions are not only humiliation based. I have a backlog of sessions to record, but I’m stuck with this damn stuffy nose that refuses to go away! Anyway. It just means more fun in the upcoming weeks.

The plan is to record a new Naughty Bunny (Sabriel style) and have it out this weekend. I also have two non-kink sessions that I want to share with you. I know the one will be well-received by quite a few followers.

For those that celebrate, Happy Eid! I’m trying my hand at kanufe (it has so many spellings) today. I couldn’t find the dye, so I’m going American style and adding yellow/orange. The dessert is a mix of philo dough (chopped) and different cheeses. The best part about living in the UK is the wide range of foods available here that my small town America didn’t offer up.

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Permissive Circumstance – May 11th

A this is the first time I’m giving a Permissive Circumstance in a written form, you have my permission today, because I appreciate that you pay enough attention to have found this post.

I enjoy the Permissive Circumstance game, and am tickled how many messages I get thanking me for release (or denial) on a daily basis. When I’m not able to put out Eunoia, I still wish I could indulge in our little orgasm denial game.

The format and method of posting may change slightly next time, since I’m not sure how this will look when it cross-posts to Twitter yet, but I will be sending out these stipulations daily from now on (barring wild horses, hell and/or high water, or catastrophic internet failure).

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Phantom Butt Plug with Femdom Hypnosis

This is the trailer. The butt plug hypnosis session is free in the shop. But(t) it has a twist. If the session’s tip jar buzzes… you might get to buzz as well. Fun, eh? This session is for the anal play curious or enthusiasts. It isn’t for those who want forced (oh, noes..) into it.

Listen to the trailer and decide if it’s right for you. As always, a hypnosis safeword is encouraged.

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Introducing Mind Control Fragments

vinyl albums near player

Last night I quietly added another page to my website, where I’m sharing a fun new project inspired by a suggestion from a faithful follower.

The page explains what these new Mind Control Fragments are all about and what you can do with them. I’m looking forward to hearing what people think of this idea, and I’m sure I’ll be inundated with suggestions.

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Can you kneel without kneeling?

You know how I feel about limiting yourself and our play. Of course, you can kneel without physically kneeling. Can you experience the same benefits? What do *you* think? Come join me in today’s session and we’ll try out a couple – in our head – kneeling scenarios.

Y writes:

Dear Mistress. I found you through maid training and hope you will give me more tasks. I’m willing. Sincerely yours, Y-

ME – There are days when I wish all of my happy maids could converge on my home for cleaning and fun. Alas, that’d require quite a few plane tickets (and a larger house!) so we’ll just meet in shared reality. Don’t worry, even Pixie has a part to play in the kneeling sessions coming out Friday and Saturday.

J writes:

Dearest Goddess Elswyth, can I make my own safe spot to use for a hypnosis safeword?

ME – I think this is a great idea. I have done personalised sessions with others that created their little Utopia setting. I know that I have a whimsical retreat, well two of them, that I use as my meditation spots in my head. I’m not sure how we could do this on a larger scale, but I’ll have a think on it!

For others who haven’t tried one of these sessions I have two available.

Tunnel of Light

Tunnel of Light

Castle Keep

Castle Keep Safeword Setting

R writes:

I can’t seem to stay focused without you. I find myself coming back to your website several times a day. I have listened to your last session several times now but can’t seem to get the fence painted. I am aching for you and I am longing for your words. Please use me.

ME – With pleasure. The nature of the next sessions being released will definitely fill this need of yours.

C writes:

I hope you are fully recovered from your vaccine side effects and that you are enjoying an amazing Sunday.  I plan to relisten to several of the Sunday eunoias from earlier this year.  I may also relisten to several of the affirmation sessions. 

With any luck, when I go back to bed in a few minutes, I will have the dream again where I am crawling on a slight incline trying to get to you.

ME – I’m sure luck was on your side! I like the “together” Sunday Eunoias, they’re some of my favourites.

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Can you DIY the SbE LDR FLR?

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Today’s podcast is all about expanding on the idea of personalising our time together. An Anonymous follower let me know their personal (you can do the same):

Mistress Elswyth,
I’ve been following you on YouTube for a little while and downloaded your beginner bundle. I’ve never done a safeword session for hypno before but I wanted to go to a safe place more than once during Circles Within Circles.
I went on a spending spree last week and I cannot describe with words how I feel about The Apartment. Such an exciting story and scenario. I plan to listen to Naughty Bunny and Eternal Suitor once a week each and use the little affirmations on any day I don’t have time.
May I have permission to cum (or not, at my own discretion) on days when I don’t hear your voice on Eunoia?
Thank You, Thank You,

Completely Yours

Denial & Rewards Feedback

J writes: My fav denial is strange, I think. I practice fasting and when I break my fast I always do it with an involved meal that takes a while to cook . It feels like meditation tagged onto the end. The food tastes better too.

N writes:

I can deny the whims into tangents of my present self to reward my future self with goals fulfilled.

I can deny the immediate carnal desires of my present self to reward my future self with satisfaction of greater value.

I can deny the unhealthy habits of my present self to reward my future self with new stamina and self-respect.

TM writes:

First of all, thank you for today’s release my goddess.  I did not know the flower. I will try not to release today until the end of the day. Denial and reward. If I disobey reward or release, will i get it soon or do I care? The only thing I care about is mistress. My pleasure is derived from hers. My release is not important. Reward#1 worshipping goddess’ feet. Reward#2 goddess using my face as a throne until she is satisfied. Reward#3 looking in my goddess’ eyes as she thinks of tasks for me. Denial#1 teasing me relentlessly while I wear petite underwear. Denial#2 edging on a schedule. Denial#3 hourly denial and teasing, promised release if withstanding the tease, although ultimately denied at the end but promised release soon

V writes:
Regarding permissive circumstances and denial/ rewards, I often use days that fall under denial to refocus my energies into an unfinished endeavor or whatever cloud is hanging around that needs to be dealt with.   Denial or reward I’m assured a positive outcome that will only bring me closer to being the best “me” or “Sabriel” I can be. My current project stems from my “3 ways” and I’m overjoyed with its progress. Pic and hopefully video to follow.

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What’s a chastity keyholder without a key?

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Happy.

The key isn’t what brings happiness. The control does. But is it just about chastity or is it more of controlling that denial and reward? I think you know the answer.

p.s. I would never turn down a key, just sayin’ it’s not a *requirement*.

How would you creatively use ten minutes with unlimited resources?

N writes: I would use my ten minutes to create experimental music that’s actually original and interesting.

CD writes: With 10 minutes and unlimited resources I would probably try to create a way to bridge differences. I do not know why folks cannot get along. We use religion and race and gender and other things as dividers. If I could I would divine the formula for undoing that tendency.

TM writes: In ten minutes I don’t think a lot could be done unless first setting up a plan to have a lot of money stashed for what follows the ten minutes. I would invest in stocks and cryptocurrency then immediately purchase contracts to construct a state of the art building where great minds can converge and plan new ways to make the earth a peaceful and prosperous place to live.

ME – If anyone wants to toss some crypto my way, let me know. I enjoy a good shitcoin (Doge!) as much as the big dogs.

D writes: My ten minutes of creativity would be jamming with Duane Allman.

ME – I did a google search on Duane Allman and then immediately had a “duh” moment for not recognizing the surname! I think if you grow up in Nashville it means you’re basically required to learn an instrument or sing, right?

RD writes:

Dear Mistress Elswyth, I was thrilled to see you had read my comment 🙂 I am glad you liked it. Even in these times, during lock downs and social distancing, it feels wonderful that even for a fleeting moment one can reach out and be heard. Thank you Mistress. I am grateful for all the effort and love you put in this.

ME – You’re welcome. I do read a lot of the comments, although I lag behind on the YT ones quite a bit!

D writes: Dear Mistress, I need more pixie sessions. I want to know about this new narrative. I see that there is a session for download on your website. I fear I may have missed key information. Is there a download code or is this only for purchase? Sincerely yours, D

ME – Dearest D. I used a poll to allow patrons to vote on which session they preferred. It ended up being the Eternal Suitor (Sabriel). So that session is the one that I gave away to my patrons. But.. I really, really wanted to do Pixie so I just went ahead and added it to the shop. I like using the Patreon poll feature to ask patrons which direction they prefer and prioritizing it (like I did with Eternal Suitor), and maybe getting another session in if time allows.

TM writes: Over the past 3-4 years I have developed an interest in different things that i would scoff at, thought of as strange or had no opinion on. Such as: getting pegged, wearing a chastity cage, prostate milking, my Queen rewarding me by letting me be her throne, my Goddess allowing me to release and my Mistress teaching me how to make sure I follow directions. These things I have treated in my own mind as a sort of controllable multiple personality gift.

I appreciate you sweet Mistress. Thank you for listening. As I remember more, I will tell you things that make me who i am or was before you taught me how to control my mind more efficiently.Pictures of the new caged beast coming soon.

R writes:

 When you put me on my knees I feel comfortable and reassured. I was starting to retreat, afraid that I would share to much or already had. I do trust You and I am willing to be open. I will obey you.

While looking out the window today I realized that sometimes my occupation requires thinking outside of the box and their is a need for creativity. Perhaps I should be focusing on what I am rather than what I am not.

Thank you for all good things.