Do you feel stuck? (Not the yummy kind of stuck). Stuck in the overthinking of how to submit, how to meditate, how to serve, how to experience pleasure, how to trance, how to this and how to that…
The induction for this session requires two hand-held objects. You simply need things that fit into your hands, don’t overthink it.
Warm and happy feelings filled me when I woke this morning (and, no, it wasn’t just about the orgasm(s))..
I have set my bedroom Alexa to a routine that hits all the right notes. The discipline of waking early, usually just before the sunrise, has always boosted my creativity. The challenge is keeping discipline during a topsy turvy time in the world. But we also know discipline can mean many things, both naughty and nice…
For the curious ones – my routine has a bit o’ whimsy (random greeting), bit o’ useful (BBC headlines), and bit o’ joy (a certain song). The light is set to mimic a sunrise, although it’s getting brighter earlier at my latitude. By the time that is done, all melatonin has washed away and I’m ready.
I’m not a pollyanna, not every day is sunshine and roses. There are days when the thoughts try to creep in faster than my emotional mental defense can shove ’em on out. Usually I can slow down and work out just *why* that is and there’s something to be said for saying “I feel like a crab ass. I have no reason to be a crab ass”. It helps me get on with life.
A habit of mine is to adopt new habits (ha) on special days. I’m rarely one for New Years resolutions because, well, I feel like New Years is still a day for fun and January is resetting time on its own. But I’ve been known to use a friend’s birthday to give up sugar (usually from one friend’s birthday to another). Or use an obscure holiday as the kick-off for daily writing for a month. I’ve even used an equinox as the start date for learning a new piece of music.
My confession is this, I have major dislike for days blurring together and feeling like time has been lost or forgotten. Being on auto-pilot doesn’t work for me even though I do love the discipline of certain routines. They don’t create an autopilot zombie state for me which I think is something others might fear — I mean, outside of fun-fun-fun hypno playtimes.
Quite a few of my happy harem dears have habit trackers and goals. I know there is a deep urge for discipline and accountability. It is a pleasure to be privvy to those goals and see that progress. And it doesn’t have to be the typical shit that people pick, does it? Learn that song, gain that League rank, finish that java class, write that email, start more conversations, sketch a leaf a day, etc.. You’re not stuck. There’s no reason you need to choose from the mundane list because, my dear, you are not mundane. I know this. You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t have a love for the different, the out of the box. So don’t think of discipline or goals in the way others do. Move beyond.
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All For Your Ears Only sessions are personalised with the answers you give on the topic that Mistress Elswyth chooses. Visit here for the current reward: https://www.patreon.com/posts/48322718
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You will experience the benefit of having a Mistress who knows your inner self in these sessions. If we haven’t struck up that relationship, this is the perfect first step.
Answer the questions and begin the creation of your sleep hypnosis session. This session focuses on dream creation. It isn’t my goal to spell out the entire dream story for you because that’s boring. We are planting the seeds that can be watered nightly and grow as they will.
Some nights they may turn into a full lush garden while other nights only one or two plants sprout. You will experience different dreams based upon what your subconscious knows you need.
Relinquish. Somehow that ties into Red Hot Chili Peppers, birthday wishes (no, it’s not my birthday..), being tied to beds, and Goldilocks. Come listen. The trailer will be up for sleep sessions today and the direct link to request yours will be on Patreon.
Today’s Eunoia includes a shout out for an “act of service”.
How about a bit of astral projection to start your Wednesday? This may end up being the theme for the next Happy Harem session if enough ask for it. First, tho, we’re doing sleeeeep.
In dreams, the images in the mind, in the subconscious, merge with and obliterate the perceptions from the astral senses, in a similar way that in daily life the subconscious causes the external world to be perceived with the colourations of thoughts, feelings, images, and emotions; in other words, we daydream or get lost in thoughts.”
– Belsebuub
Oh.. and I have included a permissive circumstance for those craving approvals for release. You might find it challenging to meet this one!
Today’s word takes us down an interesting road. It isn’t your typical goal word. I don’t think you’ll find it engraved on a charm bracelet or turned into decorative art — although you do see it in the UK a lot outside of takeaways!
For March, we are using vibrations and meditations to focus on our naughty and nice words.
Do you remember those? At the end of 2020, I asked for you to share goal words or phrases with me but required you to send one of each. The response has been fantastic and they continue to trickle in.
Each day, you will be reminded to sit in the same way. If you are unable to do so, simply imagine yourself in that position. You do have a marvellous imagination. I should know, I help fuel it.
I will also ask that you hum. Now, if you’re in a place where you’re unable to make any noise that’s fine. You and I know that you’ll find a time in your day. After all, it’s not as if humming is something to hide. People do it all of the time, but you will be humming for a purpose.
And.. for those that love it, you will find permissive circumstances sprinkled throughout like unexpected, yet welcome, spring showers. Permissive circumstance refers to meeting a requirement to get *ahem* “release”. Different situations, stipulations and other whimsy things will be set out for you.
After the spoken word, there is a short period of music to use for reflection. This month’s Eunoia has no bell tone, instead, the fading of the music is your cue to wrap up your devotion time.
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For March, we will explore the entire Naughty & Nice word collection as our theme. But simple word fixation isn’t all I want. Listen to this intro so you know what I expect from you.