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Wednesday – hypnosis personas and a new poll

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Today there is a new poll up for Patrons to vote on their favourite personas (from the choices allowed). You are (almost) always free to make choices in the conditions of my choosing. It may, or may not, be related to what I have planned for you this weekend.

You can find the poll here

Remember, voting is important. A great way for a submissive man to exercise your almost-right to sometimes choose. This is an FLR, it wouldn’t be nearly as much fun if you had lots of freedom.

We continue to talk about hypnosis personas by digging deeper. And I do like going deeper. Below you will find some comments and questions from my followers. I know some of you are too damn shy to ask for yourself, so maybe you’ll see your question magically asked by someone else? As long as it is *shyness* and not laziness, that’s fine. You’re not allowed to be lazy.

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The Apartment has resulted in many sheets needing to be washed. Oh, wet dreams. Who knew those could pop back up after puberty? Amnesia play is scrumptious when done with someone that you trust. It makes my heart sing that you specifically said you like being seduced. I’m not one of those that just wait to be pursued. Like Athena, I value a good hunt. Unlike Athena, I’d never chosen a life of virginity.

Today’s Eunoia includes homework and a permissive circumstance. Lucky you.

Homework & Feedback

Anon Says:

Do you have younger submissives? How much does age matter to you?

ME – Yes.

Age matters for the 18+ legal issue, otherwise it is all about creativity and love for life. How can I enjoy hypnosis personas with a person lacking an imagination? I also can’t do someone who mopes about their age (either end of the spectrum) nor do I worry much about staying in a certain range. One serious long-term relationship was with a guy quite a bit older. Now, my “in everyday life” loves happen to be about the same age — and younger than I am. It all works out in the end, right?

R Says:

More than a handful of messages, including one from R, are quite similar. This one says “Mistress, I’m begging you, please use me”.

ME – It’s safe to guess that R listened to The Apartment – Mind Control session

Beg more.

I’d like at least a page (handwritten) of begging.

K Says:

K writes: Your words are like oxygen

ME – Thank you.

B Says:

What color boat would you pick?

ME – Red, of course. It feels like the traditional narrowboat colour. It also suits me perfectly. Now I just need a catchy name (and funds!)

Persona homework:

I may not have given enough specifics here earlier so I’ll give it another go. I guess you could say I’ve dabbled with furry fandom but never dove in. I couldn’t say what “fursona” fits me best but if I go with one of those personality quizzes, it pegs me as a Fox as I “ strive to find adventure and entertain my hunger for living life.”

ME – I don’t have a fursona, although I often claim to soak up sunshine like a lizard. Something tells me that spotted skink isn’t likely to be a sexy fun fursona for a weekend of play. They’re not even furry!

Anon Says:

What do you notice about a stranger?

ME – This question popped up in my inbox shortly after I published Violet. I’ve hinted at studying others at the library, cafe, and other similar locations. I’m not a stalker, but I do love watching people.

What I notice first? What they’re carrying. This is sadistic of me and my apologies to those of you who will forever be self-conscious. I love watching those come into the cafe around 9:20am with their laptop bags and “I’m gonna get work done” faces on… only for them to look around the room and realize all of the outlets are taken.

Another Says:

I like many adventures. It helps me explore ideas that might not have occurred to me (CEI, feminization, prostrate play.) If the play is something I am not interested in I know new play is right around the corner.

ME – Perfect response and quite true! I have a love for many types of play and enjoy exploring all of them. I think the hypnosis persona play also allows someone to take on (or discard) a variety of roles.

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Eunoia – Questions, auras and your sexy gift

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Today’s Eunoia is exploring our persona for the perfect weekend away. You may watch the images on the video or choose to listen to audio-only.

I also have a surprise for you. Your naughty suggestions and homework inspire creativity in me and led to this play session for us. The session notes are below — be aware that it is sexual, femdom hypnosis play with unquestioning mind control. This may not be for everyone. You’re encouraged to do a hypnosis safeword setting session prior to any play with me.

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You are invited to visit my apartment. I know you won’t protest. I know you won’t question or ever ponder what I plan to do with you when you get there.

This sultry session will take you through the experience of visiting an apartment I keep just for you. And when you arrive I will indulge my own desires with the deepest expression of mind control, a total exchange of power to me through hypnotic suggestion.

You are lucky to have such a kind Mistress, Empress, Goddess, who wouldn’t dream of leaving you with the chance of being anything less than perfect. Don’t you want to be perfect?

You will not question me. You will not want to question me. And you will speak in the way that pleases me. I will allow you to say everything you need to say.

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Eunoia – Findom, Pain, and Science

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How is that for a title? I’ve been nagged by the SEO program to use variety in titles. And, honestly, I get why a bunch of posts titled “Eunoia – Wednesday” don’t work in the long run. My creativity still goes towards sessions more than SEO – but I’m alright with throwing out nonsensical titles.

Today’s episode actually *does* cover all three of those topics. How, you ask? Because I’m brilliant. And because one gentleman asked about findom, another mentioned pain relief, and the science ties into our personas.

I also mention a library. For those of you who loyally visit SbE, I decided to treat you with part of the story in today’s post. Want all of the story? Convince me. (Ooooh.. that might excite the findom dude! For the low, low price of — wait, I don’t think that’s right.)

Every man has their purpose. That is what the stories say, and while there are elements of that which are true, the reality is that purpose isn’t unique to that specific man. The reality is that those specific purposes can be narrowed down to three main characteristics. Their brain, their beauty and their strength.

Snippet from The Library.

For those of you unfamiliar with findom, I realise I should include a somewhat simplistic definition. Findom stands for financial domination. Simply put, men involved in findom send expensive gifts, give regular sums of money (the amount is set by the woman) or even allow the unknown woman to have complete control over his finances. There is no sexual exchange and in the majority of cases the two never meet. Occasionally men ask their domme to blackmail them, all however, submit in the relationship and expect to be spoken to harshly and insulted.

Now, I know. I know there is JimBob in SmallPlace, DeepSouth who would argue — and his kin would likely agree — that anyone with a Patreon using “adult subject matter” is participating in findom. But what JimBob doesn’t get (other than blowjobs and pegging..) is the reality that there is a difference. One is focused entirely on the money being the thrill. And if people have that as their fetish, I honestly have zero problems with it. Money flows where money flows and I’m a believer in that. I do question why it’s often assumed that “Domme with an online presence” means I’ll participate in findom. Even one of my dearest, loveliest faithful followers fell into that trap when we first met — hinting that he’d be willing to pay more if I could get it out of him.

Maybe it is because of my beliefs regarding money that I can’t take it seriously. I enjoy money, I enjoy gifts, but I also enjoy creativity in all forms. I can’t find the creative angle in it. Maybe if I had a weekend french maid who hung up a tenner with every piece of laundry? That might work.

Does anyone want to play french maid?

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Eunoia – Watch the video. I insist.

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I hope you’re having a wonderful Thursday. It isn’t the typical Monday month start that I adore, but it is sunny and gorgeous.. and all things spring.

Plus, I have even more naughty pics, videos, and voice files in my inbox. Ooh.. I love being spoiled!

We are jumping right into exploring another type of creativity. It does tie into some smutty-useful-fun sessions coming out during this month.. and, hey, it’s just fun.

I love when we play together in my shared reality. Check over previous days if you want to participate in the Grand Data Collection (aka google forms) on personas and the like. You can use the form to submit your homework. You’re on the honor system for today’s permissive circumstance.

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Eunoia – Eudemonia and Extra Homework

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Today is the last day of the month, and the last of our Naughty/Nice words for March. Did you catch your word over the last month? If not, you might hear it pop up as we move onto another theme.

If you came to this page from YouTube or your favourite podcast app, the link and an audio explanation of today’s homework can be found here:

Your Homework

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Eunoia – Edify

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Today Eunoia includes:

A Q&A session involving a couple of my “first times”. The first time I topped someone, plus the first time I hypnotized a person. The anon contact form has been getting quite a bit of use!

No permissive circumstance or homework, but I explain why.

If you missed yesterday, go back and do the Persona form. Let’s build on this femdom hypnosis together. Our April Eunoia is going to be an interesting *shared* exploration. Faithful followers continue to do their homework and provide input, I love this kind of relationship-building (the kind where I’m still in charge).

Plus, I’m using this feedback to plan the next loyalty reward. The personalized sleep hypnosis sessions continue to get edited and sent… I’ll need SOMETHING intimate to do after that, right? A good excuse for you to share those thoughts and feelings with your Mistress.

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Eunoia – Commitment and a Question

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In today’s Eunoia we cover commitment, democracy, and humming your intention.

Your permissive circumstance is intertwined with your homework for today. If you dream about using hypnosis to step into the role of someone else, exploring another reality as a different person (or non-person.. woof).. you’ve met today’s permissive circumstance. BUT! You must, simply must, do your homework before doing your handiwork.

USE the form, do NOT send an email/message.

If you have zero desire to adopt a persona, include it too. You won’t meet the PC, but you will show you’re obedience to completing your homework.

Feel free to submit multiple answers and be specific.

“Playful kitten for a day, keeping Empress company”

Or

For example “maid” can be – “humiliated sissy maid” or “shameless outgoing french maid” or even “useful Lady’s maid – proper and demure, my Lady’s constant companion”.

Or

“Trained slave” can be “regularly shown off hypnoslave that serves Mistress and her friends” or “trained slave that visits my Queen on the weekends but we kept is private” or “trained slave that doesn’t know he is one because Mistress erases his memory over and over”

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Eunoia – Recapitulation and Time Travel?

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At her usual time, Alexa gave me a random good morning greeting and started in on the news. It was still dark. This is how I remembered the UK time shift this weekend. I prefer waking up to sunshine. How do you handle time shifts? And will they EVER end it?

Today is Sunday and it is our together day.

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Eunoia – Saturday – What if you .. didn’t?

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Good morning! We have recipes (and satisfied followers).

So I’ll make sure that I protect people’s privacy by not linking names and recipes/places. Thanks to those who included pics as well. I like that asking someone about their hometown “known for” is a surefire way to start a conversation.

It ties into what we’ve discussed about connecting with others. I’m not trying to be the self-help guru here, trust me my interest is still more in playing fun mental games and improving rope skills… but from private conversations I know there is a struggle with balance, expectations, and anxiety. Our Eunoia for today touches on that too.

Our poll is going strong — should you be able to save permissive circumstance rewards for another day? Wayne has upped the ante to say he’d be willing to inform me of when he does so. I told him that’s a good start. Any thoughts on what you think should be included?



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Eunoia – Transcend and Meatloaf – plus, a poll!

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Today’s Eunoia includes a question from a follower regarding personal circumstances. Everyone is able to vote in the poll, it is public access on Patreon. Correction — that one is only available to Patrons, I didn’t realise Patreon doesn’t allow public polls.

New open-access poll:



But much like the state of .. oh, wait.. That’s politics. I’ll skip it. Let’s just say, the final decision rests with me, I just want to see what *others* think. I bet you do too.

Eunoia’s format is shifting. Thank you to my dear ones who share their polite, constructive notes with me. I have willing volunteers to discuss maid training, affirmations, personal growth ideas, and the format of Spoken by Elswyth.

As you know, this isn’t my full-time job and it is my goal to continue to make it never feel like a job at all. The feedback I’ve received on structure allows for a consistent feel to Eunoia. What started off as a couple of minutes of focused time has evolved into this goodwill between us, an open conversation, and I want to keep it that way.

With that said, Eunoia will have defined parts. We will always begin with the preamble for shoutouts, answers, and updates. This is followed by time to prepare yourself for our daily devotion and a one minute period of quiet. We’ll wrap up with any homework or permissive circumstances to make it easier for you to get onto that busy – or pleasurable – post-Eunoia bit. 

 After we’ve wrapped up our March, I’m using the beginning part of April to put into place a clever idea given to me by a follower. Previously I tried to stick to one theme per week, but that can be limiting. Instead, we will follow thoughts where they take us. Eunoia will be recorded one day in advance so it’s scheduled to be up early for those AHEAD in the time zones.